Thursday, October 23, 2008
Low cut shirts
A girl in my math class wears a shirt that is so low, that it shows the top of her bra (brown today). And this wasn’t just a one time thing- she dresses like this every single class. Most non Jewish girls can tell that a shirt is too low when her boobs are hanging out, and way too much cleavage is showing (and this girl has huge boobs!). It just looks slutty and distasteful. I understand that guys like looking at that and girls are trying to impress and get attention, but c’mon, do u have to wear a shirt so low that everyone sees the top of your bra?! I feel kind of bad for her. She’s not a bad looking girl, not gorgeous but not ugly by any means. She is a bit chubby, but not fat. (Ever notice that the frum girl definition of fat is a size 10, while in the non Jewish world, that’s pretty normal?) But all I could think about was why she felt like she had to expose herself so indecently. Maybe she has low self esteem and is insecure? Ok so maybe she’ll get some meaningless flirting out of it, but will a guy ever take her seriously when she’s practically flashing the world? When she gets dressed in the morning and looks in the mirror does she say “oh no, this shirt doesn’t show enough cleavage, I have to go change.” Does she really think it looks good when her humongous boobs hang out of her shirt so that it’s almost like they have a life of their own? I think she needs a non slutty friend to help her go shopping and get dressed. I don’t know if I'm just noticing this because I'm frum and cover my collar bone, so this is an extreme difference than what I wear, but I don’t think so- I don’t see anyone else dressing like that in math class.
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sometimes feeling comfortable enough with your body that you're willing to have it exposed is liberating.
Not that I agree, just saying that this may be what is in her head.
You do realize she might be looking at you thinking you have no self esteem and are so insecure you feel the need to cover up so much.
And you know the bra could be part of the shirt.
she may be thinking that abt me, but then she has to be thinking it about 85% of the ppl in my school too.
and the bra was not part of the shirt. nice of u to try to stick up for her tho :-)
Well you know its probably not on her mind so much, maybe it's just unconscious. Like she doesn't pay as much attention to what is and isn't covered as a religious girl might.
no no no- u dont understand- the ENTIRE class is thinking the same thing as me. maybe i need to take a picture so u guys can see how intense this is lol
So her boobs hung out, big deal.
some people are just exhibitionists. even secular people have a code of whats modest and whats over the top. it may not match what the frum world considers modest, but there is a standard.
frum single female- exactly! very well said!
jacob- ur a guy so ur opinion doesnt count on this topic
im a guy in a class that has a 5-1 girl/guy ratio, and i know exactly what you mean.
there was a girl in my class who came dressed in a very revealing top, skirt, and high heels, every single week. EVERY week. i think she was a prostitute or something, or is that my overactive imagination..
see it IS weird!
take a picture ES
Yeah, you definitely need to take a picture so that we can fully understand the gravity of the situation, and only then will we be able to work with her, in close quarters, to a hopefully amicable solution.
lol oh boys will be boys
I just hope that nobody here feels condescending or whatever to that girl.
wow i should write more posts abt girls body parts. this is the most comments ive ever gotten!
now you're talkin...
When sex is just recreational, nothing special, this is not surprising. Just like those boys who come to class in basketball jerseys and shorts and $200 athletic shoes. The players wear the appropriate uniform to be ready to partake in their sport at any time. So this girl is just looking for a new team to play with, that's all.
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